The Beautiful Life of Your Brain
A look at the neuroscience of our most human traitsโlove, anger, compassionโand how to harness your mental muscle for a more fulfilling life
At this very moment, the twin Voyager spacecrafts, launched in 1977, are carrying precious cargo on their journey beyond the solar system: special records that contain, among other things, a Mozart aria, greetings in 55 languages, and the brain waves of a young woman newly in love.
Renowned astronomer Carl Sagan led the Golden Record project, intended to introduce the people of Earth to any beings the spacecrafts might encounter. To include as part of the contents, Saganโs teammate Ann Druyan had her brain waves measured with an EEG test, which was then compressed into one minute of sound.
Just two days before, Sagan and Druyan had realized they were in loveโan overwhelming sensation flooding Druyanโs mind during the EEG. So today, 18 years after Druyan became Saganโs widow, that precious song of a brain in love (it sounds like exploding firecrackers) is still soaring into the vastness of space.
To distill the essence of the human race for an interstellar audience, Sagan and his team chose to reveal a hint of our brainโs inner workings. The question of what makes us human is well-worn territory for philosophers, theologians, and artists. But to many scientists, the answer lies in the mystery of our brain, the three-pound organ between our ears firing nearly 100 billion neurons.
โOn a physical level, thereโs just a bunch of atoms sloshing around,โ says Christof Koch, PhD, chief scientific officer of the Allen Institute for Brain Science in Seattle. โBut then there is a magical jump where this activity turns into feelings of anger or the memory of your first kiss.โ
Advances in technology, such as fMRI scanning, allow us to see how regions of the brain function and where certain emotions originate. Last year, President Obama declared โthe next great American projectโ to be the Brain Research Through Advancing Innovative Neurotechnologies (BRAIN) Initiative, which pledged scientists financial support to crack our brainโs mental code.
Experts hope such efforts will advance the fight against autism, Alzheimerโs, and depression. This research may also shed light on questions about how we fall in love or make a tough decision, says Thomas R. Insel, MD, director of the National Institute of Mental Health. โTo understand the brain is the ultimate journey to find out who we are,โ he says.
A Brief History of Your Marvelous Mind
This sophisticated organ has been evolving for millions of years through a process similar to adding ice cream scoops to a cone, says David J. Linden, PhD, a Johns Hopkins University neuroยญscientist and author of The Compass of Pleasure. โLower parts like the cerebellum and hypothalamus, which handle survival-oriented behavior like sex drive and eating, havenโt evolved as much, so what a lizard has and what we have are not fundamentally different,โ he says, describing the first evolutionary scoop.
โHigher centers involved in emotional processing, like the hippocampus and amygdala, are a lot more elaborate in mice than in lizards,โ he says of the second scoop. โThen as you move farther up, humans have a giant, complex cortex,โ he says of the top scoop. This is home to our thoughts and language.ย The interaction between these older and newer brain regions makes us who we are today.
Hereโs another way to look at the haphazard way our brains have evolved. โSay someone asked you to build a racing boat, but they gave you a wooden rowboat and said you could only add things to make it into the racing boat,โ says Linden. โThatโs what brain evolution has been: You can only subtly tweak what was there before and canโt change the basic plan.โ The interaction between these older and newer brain regions makes us who we are today.
โBoth people and mice can feel pleasure from eating and making babies, which both need to survive and pass down their genes. But only a human can take pleasure in fasting or abstaining from sex, which has no evolutionary advantage. The miracle of human thinking is that our ancient pleasure circuitry can be activated by higher, more complicated parts of our brain,โ Linden explains.
โIn a way, this is the basis of all human culture,โ he continues. โThat we can take pleasure from things that are utterly arbitrary is what enriches so much of our lives.โ
Human evolution is a glacial process, but we can directly affect our personal โevolutionโ in our lifetime. โThereโs a well-known saying: Neurons that fire together, wire together,โ says neuropsychologist Rick Hanson, PhD, author of Hardwiring Happiness: The New Brain Science of Contentment, Calm, and Confidence. Repeated patterns of thoughts and feelings actually change our brain structureโevidenced by practices such as mindfulness meditation.
In other words, we can help build our own racing boat. Hereโs how our brain operates during seven common situations. We can use these insights to flex our mental muscle.
Your Brain Under Criticism
Think back to your last performance review. โYour boss starts by saying 19 positive things,โ says Hanson. โBut if thereโs one piece of criticism at the end, thatโs what you remember. What sticks is the negative 20th.โ
That overreactionโcalled negativity bias in psychology circlesโhelped keep ancient humans alive.
โAncestors had to โget carrots,โ meaning food and mates, and โavoid sticks,โ such as predators,โ Hanson explains. โIf you donโt get a carrot today, youโll have another chance tomorrow. But if you fail to avoid a predator? Whap! Game over. Our brains became wired to hyper-focus on bad news.โ He continues, โThe brain is like Velcro for bad experiences but Teflon for good ones.โ
Simple practices can help you counteract this bias. โNegativity quickly becomes neural structure,โ he says. โPositive experiences, however, can take more time to encode. Intentionally feeling positive experiences longer helps them sink in, which can help you become happier and more resilient.โ Savor receiving a compliment. Be mindful during happy moments; note details so theyโre easier to remember.
Your Brain While Procrastinating
When you put off a pressing project, you avoid negative emotions caused by an unpleasant task because you want to feel good now. But all youโre really doing is giving the problem to your future self. โSo the question neurologically becomes, Why do we treat Future Self like that?โ says Timothy A. Pychyl, PhD, an associate professor of psychology at Carleton University in Ottawa, Canada, and the author of Solving the Procrastination Puzzle.
One study that used fMRI to see what parts of the brain were active when subjects thought about their present selves, their future selves, and a stranger found that the brain thinks about the future self more similarly to the way it thinks about a stranger.
Procrastination is also the struggle between two different brain systems. The limbic system, which is responsible for our basic emotions, is an old part of our brain (in the second ice cream scoop). Itโs also a very fast automated system that responds nonconsciously. It wants immediate mood repairโto feel good now. Then thereโs the newer prefrontal cortex (the third scoop), home of executive function, which involves planning and impulse control. Itโs a slower process you have to consciously kick into gear.
When you contemplate doing your taxes, the limbic system first activates with its urgent goal of feeling better now, which is accomplished by avoiding this dreaded task. Lagging behind is the more responsible prefrontal cortex, which you need to engage to think about the benefits of completing your tax return on time.
Your Brain in Love
The luckiest among us relate to not only the romantic love Ann Druyan experienced when she first fell for Carl Sagan but also the long-lasting bond that linked the couple until Saganโs death 19 years later. Those two distinct types of love arise from different brain regions, says Helen Fisher, PhD, a member of the Center for Human Evolutionary Studies at Rutgers University.
โRomantic love originates in the ventral tegmental area in the oldest part of the brain near centers that govern thirst and hunger,โ she explains. โRomantic love is a basic drive that focuses our energy on winning lifeโs greatest prize: a mating partner. It is a mechanism for survival.โ
A primary brain region linked with attachment, however, is the ventral pallidum, which is more modern and higher up (in the third scoop). โIntense, romantic attraction is a more primitive response than feelings of attachment, which are more recent,โ she says. This circuitry is linked to lifelong love.
โPeople in love long term show activity in the ventral medial prefrontal cortex, which is linked with โpositive illusionโโthe ability to overlook cons and focus on pros,โ Fisher says. People in long-lasting love relationships say things like โIt annoys me when he doesnโt pick up his socks, but I love his sense of humor.โ This mind-set may help nurture loving feelings long after the honeymoon period.
Your Brain on Road Rage
Being pepper-sprayed, getting punched, and landing in jail are all outcomes of recent cases of โฆ traffic incidents like tailgating. How is it that road rage can result in 12,610 injuries and even 218 murders over a seven-year period, as a AAA report concluded?
Blame a psychological quirk called fundamental attribution error. โWe assume that someoneโs behavior is due to their innate disposition, as opposed to thinking about the situation that could be causing it,โ says Joseph Moran, PhD, research associate at the Harvard University Center for Brain Science. When somebody cuts you off, you assume that person is a jerkโinstead of wondering if heโs rushing to the hospitalโand that makes you mad.
Our brains were built to overreact to a perceived threat. โThe same neuronal machinery that protected our ancestors from charging lions is locked and loaded when we encounter ordinary stresses like traffic,โ says neuropsychologist Rick Hanson. Your body releases the hormone cortisol; this sets off the brainโs alarm bell by stimulating the emotionally charged amygdala while damaging neurons in the hippocampus, which shrinks the calming part of the brain that puts things in perspective.
To bring this stress response under control, we can use our newer brain regions, like the prefrontal cortex, to regulate our older ones. For example: Everyone has an involuntary reaction to a stressful situation like giving a public talk. โWe feel butterflies and have a dry mouth because thatโs how evolution has trained us,โ Moran explains. But some people can recast that nervous energy as a positive force. Their higher brain regions allow them to reinterpret physical symptoms as a sign they are excited and ready to connect with the crowd.
When you feel angry behind the wheel, forcing yourself to refocusโsay, by thinking, Iโll be only 15 minutes late, or, I might as well enjoy the nice day while I waitโmay help you dial down your emotional reaction.
Your Brain While Dreaming
A participant came to a dream study with a dilemma. He couldnโt decide between two graduate programs near his Massachusetts home and two farther west. Then he dreamed he was in a plane flying over a map. The pilot said they were having engine trouble and needed a safe place to land. The student suggested Massachusetts, but the pilot said Massachusetts was โvery dangerous.โ The student woke up realizing the right choice was a program away from home.
By conducting such dream studies, Deirdre Barrett, PhD, assistant clinical professor of psychology at Harvard University, has been exploring the complex workings of the brainโs sleep circuitry. After you conk out, she explains, your brain becomes quiet, but after 90 minutes, it dramatically reactivates with rapid eye movement (REM) sleep, becoming as active as it is when youโre awake. However, that activity comes from a different distribution of brain regions.
While the primary visual cortex, which receives light input from your eyes, is less active while youโre sleeping than when youโre awake, the secondary visual cortex, which is involved when you imagine something, is most active during REM sleep. The motor cortex turns on, firing off movement commands that are countered by another area that paralyzes muscles during sleep. Also notably, the โcensoringโ prefrontal cortex, which helps ensure you behave in conventional ways, becomes less active while you snooze.
Not only does this new distribution of activity match the iconic features of dreamsโvisually rich environments where you perform over-the-top actions and events take bizarre twistsโbut it also makes dreams fertile ground for solving the problems of your waking life. Increased activity in the secondary visual cortex allows your dreaming mind to visualize new solutions to problems. โInventors might see a design, or chemists might visualize the structure of molecules,โ says Barrett. Decreased activity in the prefrontal cortex can help in instances where youโve been stuck.
To maximize dreamingโs problem-solving benefits, Barrett suggests in her book The Committee of Sleep that at bedtime, you phrase your concern in a succinct way by writing it or repeating it to yourself. Then come up with a visual image representing the issue, and tell yourself you want to dream an answer. Of equal importance, keep a pad and pen by the bed, and write down your dream as soon as you wake up. โDreams are held in short-term memory, but writing them down transfers them to long-term memory,โ says Barrett.
Your Brain While Listening to Music
Imagine youโre in line for coffee, and Pharrell Williamsโs bouncing hit โHappyโ comes on the radio. The resulting cascade of mental activity it takes to process the music โtouches on all the most advanced aspects of human cognition,โ says Robert Zatorre, PhD, professor of neuroscience at the Montreal Neurological Institute and Hospital at McGill University.
First, the sound hits your ear, activating a series of structures from the cochlea (where vibrations are turned into electrical impulses) to the brainโs cortex. When you recognize the tuneโits name or where you last heard itโyour auditory cortex is connecting with regions that handle memory retrieval.
Then, if you start tapping your foot, youโve activated the motor cortex in a very particular way because youโre tapping to the exact beat of the song.
Finally, if โHappyโ has you feeling, well, happy, the song has turned on your brainโs reward systemโancient, powerful circuitry triggered by essentials for survival like eating and sex.
Why does something seemingly nonessential like music engage that life-promoting system? Scientists are still trying to figure that out, but what happens to your brain when you hear a song you love may provide some crucial insight.
โMusic increases cross talk between brain structures in old reward centers that handle pleasure and newer areas of the cortex that handle prediction and anticipation,โ says Zatorre. ย In one study, he found that the brain released dopamine, a chemical linked to pleasure and reward, in anticipation of a subjectโs favorite part of the song. So it may be that music fuels your brainโs innate desire to detect patterns and solve problems.
Your Brain While Meditating
Meditation may be a powerful way to build our brainโs old rowboat into a sleek racer. The practice can grow brain tissue, improving our moods and making us more resilient.
โMeditation involves metacognitionโthinking about thinking, paying attention to attentionโwhich uses the prefrontal cortex,โ says Hanson. โIt engages the entire brain, accessing sensory and emotional experiences, wants and drives, and deep ancient substrates of consciousness. Meditation seems to engage the most modern parts of the brain as well as the most ancient ones.โ
In one study, participants who meditated 40 minutes every day showed thicker gray matter in areas involved in attention, decision making, and working memory, compared with those who didnโt meditate. Another study showed that eight weeks of mindfulness meditation boosted gray matter density in several regions, including the hippocampus (involved in learning and memory), and decreased gray matter density in the amygdala (which plays a role in stress).
โSitting down, focusing on breathing, and relaxing every day is actually going to build brain structure?โ Hanson says. โThatโs pretty cool!โ